Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Men... Stand Up and Show Out| 2013 Is Calling Men to Greater



  
  In years past we have heard that Men this is your year. Maybe you've heard New Year, new beginnings, those sayings were all true, but 2013 is calling All Men to Greater. That means, this year has great things, opportunities, adventures, and yes beautiful rewards, for those that take that chance. Take a stand. Know what it is they want in their lives and the lives of their families. Chosen by God in the beginning of time through Adam to do great things, it now falls on us to achieve that greatness.

    The Bible tells us in the last days, greater works shall ye do. Meaning us. You may find yourself in a situation that you must love someone more than they've been loved before. Will you be able to empathize with an individual who might need that love? That child that may need you to guide them through a circumstance that they might not see a way out of at that time. You may be called to spend more time with your family. Mending fences in your family. Allowing hearts and hurts to heal. Greater, means just that, more than you had before. So many of us are missing out because we are not answering the call.

To answer the call is to accept responsibility. Receive the weight of a job. Trust of individuals who believe in your ability. Hope that things will pan out with good results. Years before the promise came of better reports for that New Year, or leave all your bad in the previous year left many of us thinking that the New Year we are owed this greatness. NO, that is not how it is going to work. God knows our potential; He knows our gifts and abilities. He also knows that many of us have become complacent and lazy. We have stop pushing ourselves to our happy spot. Learning what makes us great in him. I know from my own experience that we have settled for less than what we deserve because it seemed easier to just play along, but it puts us in the situation to give up, cheat, or lose everything and not fight for it.

  2013 is calling us to bust the glass ceiling. Grab a pocketful of stars while shooting for the moon. The Bible tells us that we can do ALL things through CHRIST that gives us strength. So seek God for the plan for your life, and that of your family. Let go of people, objects, and things that do not factor into that plan. Much Love and Pure success in your life this year. I speak and believe life for you.

Men... Stand Up and Show Out for 2013! 

Contributing Writer: M McInnis  

Monday, December 31, 2012

Men... Stand Up and Show Out | Happy New Year 2013



Men... Stand Up and Show Out.
Thank you for all your support in being a strong man and allowing your self to be seen to show other men how to stand up and show up to support someone else. 

What are you going to do this year 2013? 

May God Bless you for being His vision. 


Monday, December 24, 2012

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Men...Stand Up and Show Out | Fight The Good Fight



 A friend told me a profound statement just recently: They said, “No remember the person that fail down, but Only the person that got back up’. Now to me that spoke in volumes, only because of the things that I have been through, similar to the song. Life & Favor (You Don’t Know My Story), by John P Kee & New Life .This song speaks to me. Looking at the person from the outside, does not tell all the thing that person have been. All the battles and struggles that they have to endure.  Consequently to the fact of my life, I've seen places that would blow your mind , there not so welcoming nor inviting yet some else told me that God put selected people in place because there strong enough to handle it. I guess there are very strong people in the world as well as whole lot of weak people in the world. So what does that tell us? There are so many non strong people that wonder around looking for strength and if they look at themselves they would be able to see their worth as well they strength. No and yes, If they look to God and ask for His help then strength will be granted towards the things that a person desires.   It seem like a lot of quotes, yet these are quotes will make you think about your own life and seen the situation unfold right before your eyes.

One day at a time. Step by step, then you don’t have to worry about those things once you learn from your past if your true to yourself. Never looking back to repeat the same mistakes, but review over the journey that you've learned. Let’s get back to that first statement, there are some many of us that give in to the {woo is me}. I don’t have this and I don’t get there, when we all been there, so still there, Please don’t get this confused with venting and moving forward, but those the stay there and don’t move ahead. Lot of us points the finger at the smaller thing that convicts us of our lives, and self doubt keep us right there and fall.  We are reminded that we fail, so we throw in the towel of lives, give up and close the door to what we want. Now this was that strength is supposed to kick in, like the energy drink. But being worried about the right thing still slow the process up even more, feeling the effects want but not doing. Lying dormant. Me, I feel that when we are to ask God help, pull us out and do, but He wants to do first, He needs to know that you want it and mean it, Once you start, he can finish the rest.  So now you got the strength to do, stop the complaining, and the bitching about what you don’t have. Get up and do it, forget about the past and who may be looking or who is saying. What do you say. What does God tell you that you are and what are you going to do about it. Make the steps one day at a time, and as you move forward in your path, watch the people talk about you being at the finish line, They will be cheering you on. It’s in us to succeed   but we got to want to succeed before we can have success.  So yes, we will remember the person that succeeds in their live for them and not for everyone else.

Look at all the great people that dealt with some much adversity in their live, forgot about them, but tell their story as if there were great steps of examples, and there were, but you too can have that path, if you pray and believe in you. We fail down, but We get up. 

 Funny but true, the words of Kat Williams, Look in the mirror can cheer on your “Number One Star Player”.

So stand up and show out, now and forever more…     

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Men... Stand Up and Show Out| Guest Blogger



Men… Stand Up and Show Out

Men…  If you are interested in becoming a guest blogger or writer, on the blog, Men..Stand Up and Show Out”. Please submit your article to dany.eason@gmail.com  . I would love to post up your views point, to other men in needing to hear good strong outlooks which comes the heart.  Just submit your article on Word doc. No more than 1,000 words per article, if you have your own image that best represents the article you can submit that as well. Please, Note all articles will be reviewed before posted on Men..Stand Up and Show Out.  We want to operate in truth and love and in order.  

Men..Stand Up and Show Out is about?

  • Ø  Men..Stand Up and Show Out is a blog about Men that Stood Up for what they believe in within the community and other caring initiatives that effected  the empowerment other by social, mentally, physical, finical and spiritual. 
  • Ø  Men..Stand Up and Show Out is about the Men that willing to share their knowledge and a compliment   to empower others to become strong individuals as well as improving better solutions of everyday situations.
  • Ø  Men..Stand Up and Show Out will highlight those Men that have done outstanding things in the community by giving back to those that are need.


I thank you all that maybe reading and submitting your comments. I look forward to more great ideas and topic that you may have a requested.  I would also like to thank all the men that allowed me to interview them for insight for Men..Stand Up and Show Out.

Once again, thank you

Dany Eason
Men..Stand Up and Show Out.  
704-352-9556

Men... Stand Up and Show Out.| Rites of passage of Crossing over Jordan




rite of passage n. 
 A ritual or ceremony signifying an event in a person's life indicative of a transition from one stage to another, as from adolescence to adulthood.

As a boy crosses the course into manhood, what will that mean, to be a man? What are his next steps, where will he go from the lessons that he has learned and will he tutored other boys in the assistants on converting a boy to man?  These are the questions that I have being inquiring; along with the programs and outlets that are out there for him. I once read an article from a Jill Scott in Essences magazine, Jill said, She read, where a boy would leave his mother to climb a high mountain of jagged sharp edges, struggling heights. Once the boy climbs up the 2 day journey, there would be village of men to teach the boy valuable skills, like cooking, cleaning, hunting, reading, writing, as well as other life skills. Then the boy would then have to climb down the grueling mountain, to stand in front of his mother and tell her that, “I’m a Man now”.

Even in the Bible, before Moses died God permitted him to climb up on a very high mountain called Nebo, and up to one of its highest peaks, called Pisgah. From this height he looked across the river Jordan and saw the wonderful Land of Promise on the other side. Now for me, I asked the question, why the mother instead of the father? Where was that father at? I don’t want you to assume that he wasn’t there, but why her and not him (fathers, man)?  I had to take a Pause…, disappointed that these matters are still happening now, no matter what type of journeys climbing the mountain; how do we fix it? So to understand why the man comes back to the mother from a boy, I get it. I’ve learned how to cope and mature being raised in a single mother home. Looking at the huge increase in single mothers raising boys to become a good person and physical man, but does that make him a man, in the mentally state of a man? 

Being that we’re in the new wave generation were kids are raising kids, What happen to true core values we once held on to yesterday, those were the same values that made strong for today. Yet we are seeing that values of yesterday are now the history to the future. We’re lost and continually losing the connection to our young men of today.  There are lots of reasons and lot of excuses that we’re giving to not be able to stand up for moral reason of becoming a man. I’m tired of the excuses, to the problem, although, I do wish for your comments and replies for doable solutions. Knowing that the struggles will not be easy, but if we push hard and work together we can collect our men back to be strong and soaring Kings that we are.

I have recognized an organization that has push forward in giving our young men hope and direction in their life when it come to rites of passages. Emerging Leaders Mentorship Program.  Website: http://www.saveourblackboys.com/Traditional-LDSP.html .I feel that this program is needed to open up our young men to a new path that we never had or once wanted. It starts with being free in your heart to open someone else heart to an idea. This organization in my opinion is Standing Up and Showing Out..   Please contact Brian Bulluck, Program Manager 704.607.1117 or bjbull@carolina.rr.com

Enclosing;  Men, as we look back on our lives growing up to become a man. Remember all the challenges and obstacles it took to cross over the stressful points. These were the forms of rites of passages or other words the test of you rising above to be man. You didn't have to see it the passing but you have faith and your sprite that lead you to know the right and the wrong, that permitted you to become this person of great character. So you moved on from the threshold of being a boy child to an adult Man.  Surpassing the pain and adversities, those are behind you and not tolerating the sit back to harm your children future. Take time to reach into your position and authority of power of being a man of honor and the rites of being a King.  You are more than a conquer.


  
Dany Eason. 

Monday, September 3, 2012

Men... Stand Up and Show Out | If...


If…
(I – Flesh, Introducing Fear)
I read the word “IF “stood for… a supposition; uncertain possibility, & a condition, requirement, or stipulation,
My meaning to “IF”: Introducing Fear, I-Flesh, Influenced Failure.   The power to Influences Failure to the mind before it happens.  There are so many ways we could break down these word “IF”, but all them are used to Invoke Fear.

I had a conversation with a friend, after church were the Pastor talked about fear, that was very significant to me , being that I know fear all too well.  On my journey of life, I have seen things and been places that most men would not dare to go.  So for him to speak on fear, I needed to know more about it to resolve the issues of my fear. It’s just funny that my fears start with the word “IF”.  It was like God answered all my questions that I had. Outside the Pastor message, the conversation with my friend was stirring up more questions. As we talking a thought pop up and I came up with an acrimony for “IF…”: the one ideas I came up with was I- flesh, then along the way more meanings surfaced, My meaning to “IF”: Introducing Fear, I-Flesh, Influenced Failure. These acrimonies define the true meaning of fear.

For a lot of us, men, that want change in their lives we all feel some type of anxiety to the word of “IF…”:  it  control our decisions of being great. There are some enormous men that shown us how to push past the pain of fear by facing it head on. We look at them and ask how they got over their adversities in life. I was listening to the Boxer “ Sugar Ray Leonard ” on the radio, to find that he wrote a book  called “The Big Fight: My Life In and Out of the Ring,” and he stated how he dealt with his sexually abuse in his life and how he camouflaged his pain and addictions.  He didn’t say what “IF…” I don’t become a great boxer, NO!  He just knew how to be a legendary.

 He showed us men that we can be better than we image ourselves to being. But once we get past that point in our lives we to can become a legend.  Many doors will open up to you once you release that power of fear in your lives. Notice once you put what if in front of your mind, doors close ahead because you have the fear that it may not happen for you. Learn from what you feared and keep moving forward in life.  For article I wanted to ask the question to you men, how do you push past the pain of your fears and how did you stand up and show out from your adversities “IF…”?  Imported Fear. {F.E.A.R.:}(False Evident Appearing Real).

Email me your story on how you stood up to fear and Pushed Past the Pain…  dany.eason@gmail.com


Inspiring thought; No More Fear! |No More IF! | Start Knowing Your Strengths that the good Lord given you.   Love yourself and love others | Let go of the Fear and live life today!


Thank you
Dany Eason